Ask Me
Book Launch + Immersive Poetry Experience
July 31 - August 2, 2026
AN INVITATION FROM HEIDI
Join me for a gorgeous weekend in Montecito, CA as I celebrate the launch of my new poetry book, Ask Me.
This collection of poetry follows the journey of the loss of my father, and the four years of reckoning, reclamation, and ultimately emergence that followed. It explores the many deaths and rebirths we all experience on a path of becoming.
This is not simply an event to attend, but a space to enter.
This will be a deeply immersive experience.
This weekend is an extension of the often invisible path of transformation. A place to encounter not just the poems—but yourself inside them.
Across two days, you will:
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Hear Heidi read from her new collection
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Be invited into writing of your own
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Spend time in both shared reflection and quiet solitude
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Experience moments of music, performance, silence, and connection
Your role is to arrive as you are—and to be willing to listen for what is unfolding within you.
Location
We will be exquisitely held by Casa Sangha. This intimate retreat center is a 100-acre property atop a mountain in Montecito, offering endless views of Santa Barbara.
Casa Sangha translates to "House of Community," and it has been designed to support healing within a community. With its sweeping views of both the ocean and sky, it is a true sanctuary.
If you’ll be joining us from out of town, we recommend staying in Montecito or Carpinteria. Accommodations can fill quickly during the summer season, so we encourage you to book early.
Reasonable rates can often be found at the Montecito Inn and the Carpinteria Best Western, or via local Airbnb options.
The Shape of the Weekend
Friday, July 31 - 5:30pm - 9pm
Poetry Angels VIP Private Vegetarian Dinner
Saturday, August 1 - 9:30am - 5pm
A full day of poetry, reflection, and gathering (Vegetarian lunch included)
Sunday, August 2 - 9:30am - 4pm
A more spacious, experiential day with time to write, integrate, and deepen (Vegetarian lunch included)
(More details will be shared closer to the event.)
Poetry Angels
Every poet needs some angels.
For a small circle of 12, there is an opportunity to step more intimately into this work.
Poetry Angels are devoted supporters of the creative process—those who feel called to help carry this work into the world.
As a Poetry Angel, you will be invited to a private VIP Friday evening vegetarian dinner with Heidi, prepared by world-class chefs. This will be a moment to gather before the weekend begins.
You will also receive a signed copy of the book to gift, along with a few thoughtful surprises.
This level includes the full weekend experience.
Your presence—and your support—helps make this work possible.
Join Us
If something in you is stirred, you are warmly invited.
WEEKEND PASS
(Sat 8/1 + Sun 8/2)
A full immersion into the weekend experience. Join us for two days of poetry, reflection, and shared presence as we move through the landscape of becoming—together. You’ll listen, write, and step into a space designed for depth, connection, and discovery.
$550
DAY
PASS
(Sat 8/1)
A chance to step into the heart of the weekend. Join us for a day of poetry, reflection, and shared presence as we explore the landscape of becoming together. You'll listen and connect with a community gathered around the transformative power of words.
$300
POETRY ANGEL
(Limited to 12. Friday 7/31 VIP dinner in addition to Sat + Sun)
For those who feel called to step closer. Poetry Angels are a small, cherished circle supporting this work and its unfolding. This experience includes the full weekend, plus an intimate Friday evening dinner with Heidi, a signed copy of the book to gift, and a few meaningful surprises. A more personal way to gather—and to help carry the work forward.
$1,000
A beginning before the beginning
Consider this your opening step.
Before you arrive, you might ask yourself:
What is changing in me? What am I ready to name? What is waiting to be written, spoken, or lived?
You don’t need the answers.
Only the willingness to enter.
See you there!